I'm a 16-year-old guy and I just found out my new family doctor is female. I'm really nervous about this because she might need to see or touch me "down there." I've had a history of painful infections when I urinate — and I have some questions about sex. Should I tell her this?
– Sam*
Seeing a new doctor for the first time can be nerve-wracking, and it may feel doubly difficult if your doctor is a member of the opposite sex. However, having pain during urination is a good reason to see a doctor, even if that doctor is of the opposite sex.
It might help to know that your new doctor has probably examined hundreds or even thousands of young men during her career. She's looking at you in the same way that a male doctor would — as a patient. Chances are she's heard and seen your problems before — and helped other guys deal successfully with the same issues you're facing.
Your good health depends on the questions you ask your doctor, so it's best to tell her about any medical issues or questions you have. You could discover that your new doctor makes you feel at ease right away — or you may find that you're still a bit nervous. It might help you feel more relaxed if you spend some time talking to the doctor before you're examined.
For more information, check out these articles:
Talking to Your Doctor
Why Do I Need Testicular Exams?
Reviewed by: Larissa Hirsch, MD
Date reviewed: August 2006
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