Crying Baby Less Than 3 Months Old

Pediatric HouseCalls Online

DEFINITION

  • A child less than 90 days of age has the sudden onset of unexplained crying.
  • The younger the child, the harder it is to identify the cause of the crying.

Causes

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WHEN TO CALL YOUR DOCTOR

Call 911 Now (your child may need an ambulance) If

  • Not moving or very weak

Call Your Doctor Now (night or day) If

  • Your child looks or acts very sick.
  • Age under 1 month and looks or acts sick in any way
  • Age under 12 weeks with fever above 100.4°F (38°C) rectally. (Caution: Do NOT give your baby any fever medicine before being seen)
  • Low temperature below 96.8° F (36.0°C) rectally that doesn't respond to warming.
  • Injury suspected.
  • Pain suspected as cause of crying
  • Bulging or swollen soft spot.
  • Swollen scrotum
  • Vomiting.
  • You are afraid you or someone might hurt or shake your baby.
  • Your baby cannot be comforted after trying this advice for 2 hours.

Call Your Doctor Within 24 Hours (between 9am and 4pm) If

  • You think your child needs to be seen.
  • Not gaining weight or seems hungry.
  • You are exhausted from all the crying.

Call Your Doctor During Weekday Office Hours If

  • You have other questions or concerns.
  • Your baby has never been examined for excessive crying.
  • Crying began after 1 month of age.  
  • Crying occurs 3 or more times per day.

Parent Care at Home If

  • Normal crying or colic and you don't think your child needs to be seen.

HOME CARE ADVICE FOR NORMAL CRYING OR COLIC

  1. Reassurance:
    • Normal Crying :   All babies cry when they are hungry. In addition, the average baby has 1 to 2 hours of unexplained crying scattered throughout the day. As long as they are happy and content when they are not crying, this is normal.
    • Colic:  Some babies cry excessively ( over 3 hours/day) or are very difficult to comfort. If they are growing normally and have a normal medical exam, the crying is called colic. Remind yourself that colic is due to brain immaturity and has nothing to do with your parenting or any medical disease.
    • Hold and Comfort:  Hold and soothe your baby whenever he cries without a reason.  The horizontal position is best for helping a baby relax, settle down, and go to sleep.
    • Provide a gentle rocking motion in a cradle or rocking chair.
    • Dance with your baby to some slow music.
    • Place in a front pack or sling (which frees up your hands).
    • Place in a wind-up swing or a vibrating chair.
    • Give a stroller (or buggy) ride - outdoors or indoors.
    • Sucking on a pacifier (if breastfeeding is well-established)
  2. Warm Bath:  If crying continues, take a warm bath with your baby.
  3. Feedings:  Feed your baby, if more than 2 hours since the last feeding (1½ hours for breast fed).
  4. Sleep and Swaddling:
    • Put your baby down to sleep, if more than 3 hours have passed since the last nap and you have tried quiet holding for more than 30 minutes. Some overtired infants need to cry themselves to sleep.
    • Swaddling often helps. Wrap your child in a light blanket with the arms tucked close to the body. Place on the back in the crib.
  5. Warning: Never shake a baby. It can cause bleeding on the brain and severe brain damage. Also never leave your baby with anyone who is immature or has a bad temper.  If you are frustrated, put your baby down in a safe place and get help.
  6. Expected Course:  Once you find the right technique, the crying should decrease to 1 hour per day.  Colic improves after 2 months of age and is usually gone by 3 months
  7. Call Your Doctor If:
    • Your baby starts tolook or act sick
    • Cries constantly over 2 hours using this advice
    • Cannot be comforted using this advice
    • Your child becomes worse 

And remember, contact your doctor if your child develops any of the "Call Your Doctor" symptoms.  

Disclaimer: This information is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice. It is provided for educational purposes only. You assume full responsibility for how you choose to use this information.

Copyright:Author and Senior Reviewer: Barton D. Schmitt, M.D. Clinical content review provided by Senior Reviewer and Healthpoint Medical Network.

Last Review Date: 9/3/2006

Last Revised: 8/5/2006 2:20:46 PM

Content Set: Pediatric HouseCalls Online

Version Year: 2006

Copyright 1994-2006 Barton D. Schmitt, M.D.

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Pediatric HouseCalls Online is a guide for treating your child at home, calling your child's doctor or seeking immediate medical attention. Developed by Dr. Barton Schmitt, MD, FAAP, a board-certified pediatrician on staff at The Children’s Hospital. Dr. Schmitt has developed health tools for parents, including Pediatric HouseCalls Online, the Parent Advice Line and his 3rd edition of Your Child’s Health, which is available in bookstores.

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David A Thompson, MD is the author of Adult HouseCalls Online. He is a board-certified emergency medicine physician at MacNeal Hospital in Chicago. He has a national reputation in telephone triage, decision support tools, medical information technology and quality improvement. Adult HouseCalls Online is a decision support tool for adults that has been reviewed and approved by adult physicians.

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