Going Home After Your Child’s Operation

At Discharge

When your child is discharged, a nurse or doctor will give you an instruction sheet telling you:

• About any prescription medications
• What to do if your child runs a fever or has discomfort
• How to care for the incision
• When normal activity may be resumed
• When your child may bathe or shower

Home Sweet Home

The best part of surgery is when it’s all over and you get to go home. Do some shopping in advance if you need to, know what to expect from your child and plan a homecoming event—a great reward for your child’s bravery and courage!

• Stock up on clear foods and drinks, such as broth, apple juice, Kool-Aid, Popsicles and Jell-O.
• Your child’s appetite should return in 12–24 hours. When your child is ready to try something a little more filling, soft, bland foods can help ease them back to solid foods.
• Plan some quiet activities and games—your child may be tired and sore.
• Kids may be uncoordinated or confused for up to 24 hours following an operation and anesthesia. Be gentle in easing them back into their usual activities. You may need to limit their activities for a brief time following their operation.
• Let siblings know their brother or sister will need to take it easy for a little bit.
• A new book or toy can make coming home a celebration.

Behavior Changes After Surgery

Children of all ages may behave differently after an operation. Young children may need more attention and may act cranky and demanding. They may have nightmares, poor appetites and bathroom accidents, even if they are toilet trained. Older children may regress, test limits or become withdrawn or clingy.

These behavior changes are normal, especially for young children who have limited ability to understand and talk about their operation. For most children, behavioral changes after an operation are temporary, lasting a week or two at most. Support your child’s return to a normal routine by:

• Being understanding
• Setting gentle limits
• Encouraging independence
• Giving them opportunities to play and talk about their operation

If your child’s behavior worries or concerns you, don’t hesitate to call your surgeon’s office.