When Baby Cries...
from Shine Newsletter, Spring 2007
It’s no secret babies cry a lot, especially during their first few months of life. Babies cry because they have to — it’s one of the ways they communicate to let us know they are hungry, thirsty, tired, uncomfortable, lonely, ill or any number of other feelings. However, sometimes the reason for crying is not easy to pinpoint, and that can lead to an overwhelming feeling of frustration or helplessness. Being prepared for a baby’s crying and knowing how to handle the situation is essential for keeping frustration levels in check and the baby safe from harm.
What’s a Caregiver to Do?
Always remember that shaking a baby, even for a second, can cause serious injury or death. While no one plans to shake a baby, without a plan in place, it can happen. If you feel overwhelmed, frustrated or angry, it is important to:
- Lay the baby down. It’s okay to leave a crying baby alone in a safe place (like a crib) for a short time. Go in another room for a quick break.
- Get control of your emotions. Do not return to the baby until you feel calm.
- Call a reliable adult to help. Ask a friend, neighbor or relative to give you a break, or call your health-care provider (doctor’s office or nurse line) for advice.
Help Is Here
For more tips on how to calm a crying baby, visit www.dontshakeababy.com and click on “Consoling a Crying Baby.”
Caring for a baby is hard work. Sometimes parents and caregivers just need a friend to listen. Talking to others can help reduce stress and frustration, and doing so reassures parents and caregivers that they are not alone.
